Dr. Marianne-Land: An Eating Disorder Recovery Podcast

If you’ve done years of eating disorder recovery work and suddenly find old trauma surfacing, you are not alone. In this deeply honest conversation, Dr. Marianne Miller and Debbie Saroufim explore the complicated overlap between eating disorders, trauma recovery, body image, nervous system responses, and healing after survival mode. They discuss why trauma can emerge later in recovery, how eating disorders sometimes function as protection, and what happens when old coping strategies no longer work.
Debbie shares personal experiences with trauma recovery, sexual trauma, body image struggles, EMDR, Internal Family Systems (IFS)/parts work, parenting, co-parenting, and navigating major life transitions while continuing the recovery process. Together, they unpack the emotional reality of healing in a world shaped by diet culture, misogyny, fatphobia, and systemic oppression.
CONTENT CAUTION
This episode includes discussion of trauma, sexual trauma, PTSD symptoms, body image distress, eating disorders, dissociation/freezing responses, misogyny, and systemic oppression.
Eating Disorders and Trauma Recovery
Many people assume eating disorder recovery means the hardest part is over. But for some people, healing from eating disorder behaviors can uncover trauma that had been buried underneath survival strategies for years. Dr. Marianne Miller and Debbie Saroufim discuss how eating disorders can function as protection, why trauma may surface later in recovery, and how recovery does not make people immune to pain, grief, fear, or nervous system overwhelm.
The conversation explores the relationship between trauma and eating disorders, including how body image struggles, restrictive eating, binge eating, compulsive behaviors, and nervous system responses can become intertwined with survival. They also discuss the emotional shock that can happen when eating disorder symptoms are no longer the primary coping mechanism and unresolved trauma begins demanding attention.
PTSD Symptoms, Nervous System Responses, and Survival Mode
This episode examines trauma responses like freezing, dissociation, hypervigilance, minimization, emotional shutdown, and nervous system dysregulation. Debbie shares how experiences from adolescence resurfaced decades later during trauma recovery work and how those memories affected her relationships, parenting, body image, and sense of safety in the world.
Dr. Marianne Miller and Debbie Saroufim also discuss the connection between trauma, body image, misogyny, fatphobia, oppression, and diet culture. They explore how living in a culture shaped by systemic inequality and body oppression can create chronic emotional stress that deeply affects mental health and eating disorder recovery.
EMDR, Internal Family Systems (IFS), and Parts Work
Dr. Marianne Miller and Debbie Saroufim discuss how EMDR and Internal Family Systems (IFS)/parts work can help people process trauma and eating disorder recovery with greater self-compassion. Debbie explains how parts work helped her understand eating disorder thoughts as information instead of commands and how learning to “unblend” from different parts of herself changed her recovery process.
The conversation also explores how eating disorders can begin as protective adaptations, why self-compassion can feel inaccessible during trauma recovery, and how nervous system regulation becomes an important part of healing. They discuss the idea that multiple truths can coexist at once and why recovery often requires compassion for every part of the self, including the parts carrying fear, shame, anger, grief, or overwhelm.
Fat Liberation, Body Image, and Intergenerational Trauma
This episode also explores the connection between fat liberation, trauma, body image, and intergenerational trauma. Debbie discusses how body image struggles are shaped by cultural messaging and systemic oppression rather than appearance alone. Dr. Marianne Miller and Debbie Saroufim talk about how trauma can be passed through generations, how children absorb messages about bodies and safety, and why many people are trying to break cycles of shame and silence within their families.
They also discuss the emotional complexity of parenting while healing, the pressure many people feel to “fully recover,” and the reality that recovery is often ongoing maintenance work rather than a final destination.
About Debbie Saroufim
Debbie Saroufim is a body acceptance coach in Los Angeles, California. She helps people all over the world build resilience against diet culture and heal their relationship with food and body image through a harm reduction and fat liberation lens. Her work focuses on body image healing, eating disorder recovery support, trauma-informed coaching, and helping people navigate life in a world shaped by body oppression and systemic inequality.
Debbie works with people of all body sizes through individual and group coaching and is passionate about bringing conversations about body diversity and fat liberation into schools and community spaces.
Find Debbie Saroufim on Instagram at @bodyacceptance_coach and at thebodyacceptancecoach.com.
Listen to Other Episodes With Debbie
When Weight Loss Isn't a Win: Eating Disorders, Stress, & Body Image Confusion (Content Warning) on Apple or Spotify.
Anti-Fat Bias in Schools and Society on Apple or Spotify.
How Eating Disorder Recovery Heals Life Overall on Apple or Spotify.
Let’s Talk Recovery: Ditching Diet Culture & Crushing Eating Disorder Thoughts on Apple or Spotify.
About Dr. Marianne Miller
Dr. Marianne Miller is a San Diego, California-based Licensed Marriage and Family Therapist (LMFT), eating disorder therapist, podcast host, and advocate specializing in eating disorders, ARFID, binge eating disorder, body image, neurodivergence, and trauma-informed care. She works with adults, teens, and children and is known for her neurodivergent-affirming, fat-liberation-informed approach to eating disorder recovery.
Dr. Marianne Miller provides eating disorder therapy (California) and coaching (worldwide) for people struggling with ARFID, anorexia, bulimia, binge eating disorder, OCD, body image distress, and complex relationships with food. Her work focuses on compassionate, evidence-based support that honors the role of nervous system regulation, sensory experiences, executive functioning, and systemic oppression in recovery.
She is the host of the Dr. Marianne-Land podcast, where she explores eating disorders, mental health, neurodiversity, trauma, body image, and recovery through honest, nuanced conversations with clinicians, advocates, and people with lived experience.
Learn more about Dr. Marianne Miller, therapy services, coaching, and courses at drmariannemiller.com.
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Why do so many people with anorexia go undiagnosed simply because of their body size? In this episode of the Dr. Marianne-Land podcast, eating disorder therapist Dr. Marianne Miller explores anorexia in higher-weight bodies, restrictive eating disorders, weight bias in healthcare, and the dangerous myths surrounding “atypical anorexia.” This conversation unpacks how restrictive eating can become normalized, praised, or completely overlooked when someone does not fit the stereotype of anorexia.
What Is Atypical Anorexia?
Dr. Marianne explains why the term “atypical anorexia” can be misleading and why anorexia is not defined by weight alone. She explores how food restriction, fear around eating, compulsive control, and intense preoccupation with food can occur in bodies of all sizes. The episode also examines why so many people struggle to recognize their own eating disorder symptoms when culture continually tells them they are “healthy” or “doing well.”
Restrictive Eating Disorders in Higher-Weight Bodies
This episode takes a deeper look at hidden restriction, chronic dieting, skipped meals, rigid food rules, and the restrictive eating spectrum. Dr. Marianne discusses how eating disorders in larger bodies are frequently missed by healthcare providers, loved ones, and even the individuals experiencing them. She also explores how praise for weight loss can reinforce dangerous patterns and delay support.
Medical Risks of Anorexia in Larger Bodies
Anorexia in higher-weight bodies carries real psychological and medical risks. Dr. Marianne explains how undernourishment affects the body regardless of size, including impacts on heart rate, hormones, cognition, bone health, anxiety, and nervous system functioning. This episode challenges the harmful assumption that someone must appear underweight before restriction becomes medically serious.
Weight Bias, Misdiagnosis, & Eating Disorder Stigma
Weight stigma and anti-fat bias continue to shape eating disorder treatment and diagnosis. Dr. Marianne explores how medical gaslighting, diet culture, and stereotypes about anorexia contribute to delayed diagnosis and inadequate care. She also discusses how intersectionality, neurodivergence, disability, race, and gender identity can further complicate recognition and access to support.
Neurodivergence, Restriction, & Eating Disorders
This episode also examines how sensory sensitivities, executive functioning differences, autism, ADHD, and nervous system regulation can influence eating patterns and restrictive behaviors. Dr. Marianne discusses why neurodivergent people may experience eating disorders differently and why individualized, affirming care matters.
Eating Disorder Recovery Without Stereotypes
Recovery begins with recognizing that eating disorders do not have one look. This conversation encourages listeners to move away from appearance-based assumptions and toward a more nuanced understanding of anorexia, restrictive eating, and body diversity. Dr. Marianne also shares why support matters before symptoms escalate and why people in higher-weight bodies deserve compassionate, specialized eating disorder care.
Related Episodes
Anorexia in Higher-Weight Bodies: Rethinking “Atypical Anorexia” & the Restrictive Eating Spectrum With Dr. Jennifer Gaudiani, MD @gaudianiclinic on Apple & Spotify.
Atypical Anorexia Explained: Why Restriction Happens at Every Body Size on Apple or Spotify.
Atypical Anorexia: Mental & Physical Health Risks, Plus How the Term is Controversial on Apple or Spotify.
Work With Dr. Marianne Miller
Dr. Marianne Miller is a Licensed Marriage and Family Therapist (LMFT) specializing in eating disorders, ARFID, binge eating disorder, anorexia, bulimia, OCD, and neurodivergent-affirming care. She offers eating disorder therapy and coaching for adults in California, Washington, D.C., and globally through coaching services.
Visit Dr. Marianne’s website to learn more about therapy, coaching, ARFID support, and eating disorder recovery resources.

You show up. You succeed. You keep functioning. Meanwhile, food, eating, body image, or restrictive behaviors may quietly consume an enormous amount of mental and emotional energy. In this episode of the Dr. Marianne-Land podcast, Dr. Marianne Miller explores the hidden reality of high-functioning eating disorders and why so many people get overlooked simply because they appear “fine” from the outside.
This conversation examines how anorexia, bulimia, binge eating disorder, ARFID, and other restrictive eating patterns can exist inside people who maintain careers, relationships, caregiving roles, and daily responsibilities. Dr. Marianne also discusses why perfectionism, masking, executive functioning challenges, and neurodivergence can make eating disorders harder to recognize and harder to treat.
Why High-Functioning People With Eating Disorders Get Missed
Many people assume eating disorders only become serious when someone visibly falls apart. This episode challenges that belief and explores how people with eating disorders often continue functioning at a high level while struggling privately with food obsession, body image distress, binge eating, restriction, compulsive exercise, or sensory-based eating challenges.
Dr. Marianne discusses how high-functioning individuals often minimize their own suffering because they are still meeting expectations at work, school, or home. She also explores how healthcare providers, loved ones, and society frequently overlook eating disorders in people who do not fit narrow stereotypes.
Neurodivergence, Executive Functioning & Eating Disorders
This episode also explores the connection between neurodivergence and eating struggles. Dr. Marianne discusses how ADHD, autism, sensory sensitivities, and executive functioning challenges can complicate meal planning, eating consistency, food variety, hunger awareness, and nervous system regulation.
You’ll hear discussion around low-lift eating, food predictability, sensory-safe foods, masking, and the emotional exhaustion that can come from constantly pushing through internal distress while appearing capable on the outside.
Intersectionality & Invisible Struggle
Dr. Marianne also examines how anti-fat bias, gender expectations, neurodivergence, and other intersecting identities shape who gets believed, diagnosed, and supported. Many high-functioning people spend years feeling dismissed because they do not look like the stereotype of someone with an eating disorder.
This episode highlights why eating disorders deserve attention long before someone reaches a visible crisis point.
Recovery Support for High-Functioning Eating Disorders
Dr. Marianne shares compassionate, neurodivergent-affirming approaches to recovery that reduce overwhelm instead of increasing pressure. She discusses building supportive structure around eating, reducing friction with meals, reconnecting with internal cues, and allowing support into areas of life that may have stayed hidden for years.
If you’ve ever thought, “I’m still functioning, so maybe it’s not that bad,” this episode is for you.
Related Episodes
Why High Achievers Can Develop Anorexia & Bulimia: Perfectionism, Control, & Hidden Struggles on Apple & Spotify.
The Truth About "High-Functioning" People With Lifelong Eating Disorders on Apple & Spotify.
Perfectionism, People-Pleasing, & Body Image: Self-Compassion Tools for Long-Term Eating Disorder Recovery With Carrie Pollard, MSW @compassionate_counsellor on Apple & Spotify.
Perfectionism, Bulimia, & Recovery: Harnessing Your Strengths to Heal With Dr. Amanda Marie @glitterypoison on Apple & Spotify.
Work With Dr. Marianne Miller
Dr. Marianne Miller is a Licensed Marriage and Family Therapist specializing in eating disorders, ARFID, binge eating disorder, restrictive eating, neurodivergence, and sensory-related eating challenges. She offers therapy and coaching support for individuals navigating complex relationships with food, eating, and body image.
For therapy, coaching, podcast episodes, and resources, visit Dr. Marianne’s website drmariannemiller.com.

What happens when diet culture gets louder, ARFID awareness grows, social media becomes therapy language, and the pressure to be thin starts shaping everyday life again? In this episode of The Dr. Marianne-Land Podcast, I sit down with Lisa Jimenez (@lisajimeneztherapy) for a deeply honest conversation about what eating disorder therapists are actually seeing in 2026. We talk about the resurgence of appearance pressure, the subtle ways eating disorders can hide in plain sight, why more people are finally recognizing ARFID, and how identity, neurodivergence, trauma, and culture all shape recovery. This episode explores the realities many people quietly live with but rarely hear discussed out loud.
Lisa Jimenez, LMHC, is an eating disorder therapist based in Miami who specializes in eating disorders, body image, anxiety, trauma, perfectionism, and work with teens, young adults, and queer clients. In this conversation, she shares how her own lived experience with an eating disorder shaped her approach to therapy and why she shifted toward EMDR, parts work, and more collaborative, relational treatment approaches.
ARFID, Neurodivergence, and the Changing Eating Disorder Landscape
Lisa and I discuss why ARFID is becoming more recognized and why many clinicians are still trying to catch up with the complexity of the diagnosis. We explore how sensory sensitivities, neurodivergence, attachment, trauma, and family dynamics can all affect eating. We also talk about why ARFID treatment requires much more than exposure work alone and why creating emotional and sensory safety matters so deeply in recovery.
We also discuss the overlap between eating disorders, autism, ADHD, anxiety, perfectionism, and trauma, along with the growing role social media now plays in helping people identify experiences they previously could not name.
Diet Culture, Social Media, and the Pressure to Be Thin in 2026
Diet culture feels especially aggressive right now, and this episode explores how that pressure shows up in both obvious and subtle ways. Lisa and I talk about “clean eating,” wellness culture, compulsive exercise messaging, “what I eat in a day” content, GLP-1 conversations, and the growing normalization of disordered behaviors online.
We also discuss how eating disorders often hide behind socially praised behaviors, especially when restriction, over-exercising, or body control become culturally rewarded instead of recognized as signs of distress.
Eating Disorders in Larger Bodies
This conversation also explores how eating disorders frequently go unnoticed in larger bodies and how weight stigma continues to affect treatment, diagnosis, and recovery. Lisa and I discuss the harmful assumption that eating disorders must “look extreme” to be serious and why many people receive praise for behaviors that are actually rooted in restriction and suffering.
We also talk about medical bias, healthcare experiences, and the reality that people can experience anorexia and severe eating disorder symptoms across a wide range of body sizes.
Queer Identity, Intersectionality, and Eating Disorders
Lisa shares insights from her work with queer clients, teens, and neurodivergent individuals, and we explore how identity and environment intersect with eating disorders in complex ways. We discuss cultural expectations around appearance, family and community pressures, social media influence, and the realities many queer and neurodivergent people face while navigating food and body image struggles.
The conversation also examines how eating disorders often function as coping strategies for overwhelm, emotional pain, disconnection, or the pressure to survive in environments that do not feel safe or affirming.
Connect With Lisa Jimenez, LMHC
Instagram: @lisajimeneztherapy
Website: lisajimeneztherapy.com
Lisa sees clients virtually throughout Florida and New York and in person in South Miami.
Related Episodes
The Quiet Places Where Anorexia Meets Identity & Expression on Apple & Spotify.
“Slips” in Eating Disorder Recovery in 2026: Why Setbacks Are Part of Progress, Not Failure (With Mallary Tenore Tarpley, MFA) on Apple & Spotify.
Chronic Eating Disorders in 2026: What Hope Can Actually Look Like on Apple & Spotify.
ARFID Explained: What It Feels Like, Why It’s Misunderstood, & What Helps on Apple & Spotify.
Work With Dr. Marianne
I’m Dr. Marianne Miller, LMFT (@drmariannemiller). I'm an eating disorder therapist specializing in ARFID, binge eating disorder, anorexia, bulimia, neurodivergence, autism, ADHD, and complex relationships with food and body image. I offer therapy, coaching, and ARFID-focused support for teens and adults.
You can also explore my self-paced ARFID and selective eating course on my website drmariannemiller.com/arfid.
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Do you feel like eating has to happen a certain way or your anxiety spirals? Do food rules, rituals, or intrusive thoughts take over your day in ways that feel exhausting but impossible to stop? In this episode of The Dr. Marianne-Land Podcast, Dr. Marianne Miller explores the complex overlap between OCD and eating disorders, including how compulsions, “just-right” feelings, anxiety, sensory sensitivities, and rigid food patterns can quietly shape someone’s relationship with eating.
Many people with OCD and eating disorders do not fit stereotypes. Some people struggle with restrictive eating, binge eating, ARFID, food avoidance, or repetitive rituals around meals without realizing that obsessive-compulsive patterns may be part of what is driving the cycle. This episode breaks down why food can become attached to safety, certainty, and relief from distress, and why recovery requires more than simply “stopping” the behavior.
Dr. Marianne also explores how neurodivergence, including ADHD and autism, can overlap with OCD and eating disorders in ways that are frequently misunderstood in traditional treatment spaces.
What OCD and Eating Disorders Can Look Like Around Food
This episode explores how OCD can show up through food rituals, rigid eating rules, repetitive behaviors, intrusive thoughts, contamination fears, and overwhelming “not-right” feelings connected to meals and eating experiences. Dr. Marianne explains why these patterns often become reinforced over time and why eating can begin to feel emotionally loaded, exhausting, and difficult to navigate.
The Difference Between Food Preferences, Rituals, and Compulsions
Not every food routine is automatically OCD, and not every eating disorder behavior comes from body image concerns. Dr. Marianne discusses the difference between supportive structure versus compulsive rigidity and explains why understanding the function of behaviors matters so much in eating disorder recovery.
OCD, Neurodivergence, and Eating Disorders
Many autistic people and ADHDers rely on predictability, sensory consistency, and routines to reduce overwhelm. This episode explores how OCD can intensify those needs and why treatment must account for sensory processing, executive functioning, anxiety, and nervous system regulation instead of relying on shame or force.
Why “Just Stop the Behavior” Usually Does Not Work
When providers or loved ones do not understand OCD and eating disorders, people often receive advice that increases distress instead of helping. Dr. Marianne explains why compulsions and rituals are not simply habits people can turn off instantly and why recovery requires compassion, pacing, flexibility, and support for the nervous system.
Recovery From OCD and Eating Disorders
This episode also explores what can actually help when food rules and compulsions take over. Dr. Marianne discusses building tolerance for uncertainty, gently interrupting rituals, supporting sensory needs, reducing shame, and creating more flexibility around eating without overwhelming the nervous system.
Related Episodes
When Eating Disorders Meet Anxiety, OCD, or Depression: Co-Occurring Challenges & Recovery Strategies on Apple & Spotify.
Obsessions, Compulsions, and Control: How OCD Intertwines With Eating Disorders on Apple & Spotify.
Food, Fear, & Fixation: How OCD Shapes Eating Disorders on Apple & Spotify.
Work With Dr. Marianne Miller
Dr. Marianne Miller is a Licensed Marriage and Family Therapist (LMFT) and eating disorder therapist who specializes in ARFID, binge eating disorder, anorexia, bulimia, OCD, and neurodivergent-affirming care. She works with teens and adults in California and offers coaching support more broadly.
Learn more about therapy, coaching, and eating disorder recovery support on her website drmariannemiller.com.
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Does one awkward interaction, unanswered text, or small piece of feedback ruin your entire day? You may not be “too sensitive.” You may be experiencing Rejection Sensitive Dysphoria (RSD), especially if you also live with ADHD or an eating disorder. In this episode, Dr. Marianne explores why rejection can feel emotionally and physically painful, why shame spirals happen so quickly, and how emotional overwhelm can shape eating patterns, body image, and self-worth.
What Is Rejection Sensitive Dysphoria (RSD)?
Dr. Marianne breaks down what RSD actually is and why perceived criticism, disconnection, or rejection can trigger such intense emotional reactions. She explores how ADHD nervous systems often process emotions differently and why even subtle social shifts can feel catastrophic. This episode also examines how years of feeling misunderstood, corrected, excluded, or “too much” can shape the way neurodivergent people experience relationships and emotional safety.
ADHD, Emotional Regulation, & Eating Disorders
This episode explores the powerful overlap between ADHD, emotional regulation challenges, and eating disorders. Dr. Marianne discusses how rejection can quickly trigger binge eating urges, emotional eating, restrictive eating patterns, perfectionism, body image spirals, masking, and all-or-nothing thinking. She also explains why many neurodivergent people struggle to “move on” after rejection and why emotional pain can linger in the body long after the moment itself has passed.
Why Food Often Becomes Part of the Coping Cycle
When rejection activates the nervous system, the brain often searches for relief. For some people, food becomes soothing, grounding, or numbing. For others, appetite disappears completely and restriction begins to feel safer or more controlled. Dr. Marianne explains why these patterns are not about lack of willpower and why eating disorder behaviors often function as attempts to regulate overwhelming emotional states.
Anti-Fat Bias, Ableism, & Emotional Pain
Rejection does not happen in isolation. Dr. Marianne explores how anti-fat bias, ableism, stigma, and chronic misunderstanding can intensify emotional pain and increase sensitivity to rejection. She also discusses why marginalized people often carry higher levels of hypervigilance in social situations and why intersectionality matters when talking about ADHD, eating disorders, and nervous system regulation.
Neurodivergent-Affirming Tools That Can Help
Dr. Marianne shares supportive strategies for navigating RSD and eating disorder recovery, including sensory supports, low-lift eating approaches, nervous system regulation, and ways to reduce shame spirals without relying on punishment or rigid food rules. This episode focuses on building more self-understanding and creating coping tools that actually fit neurodivergent brains and lived experiences.
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ADHD & Bulimia: Dopamine, Impulsivity, & the Hidden Link to Binge Eating With Kirsten Book, PMHNP-BC on Apple and Spotify.
Work With Dr. Marianne
Dr. Marianne Miller is a Licensed Marriage and Family Therapist (LMFT) specializing in eating disorders, ARFID, binge eating disorder, neurodivergence, ADHD, and emotional regulation challenges. She offers therapy and coaching for people navigating food struggles, shame, sensory sensitivities, and overwhelming emotional experiences. Check out her self-paced, virtual, ARFID and Selective Eating Course.
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What happens when you relate to parts of autism, ADHD, giftedness, sensory sensitivity, masking, and trauma, but never fully fit into one diagnosis or label?
In this timely conversation, Dr. Marianne Miller sits down with neuro-affirming clinical psychologist Dr. Emma Offord to explore “neurohybridity,” a term Emma developed to describe the fluid, overlapping, and mosaic-like nature of neurodivergent identity. Together, they unpack why so many late-diagnosed autistic and ADHD adults, especially women and marginalized people, feel unseen by rigid diagnostic systems and traditional mental health models.
This episode explores late-diagnosed autism, ADHD in adults, masking, giftedness, medically unexplained symptoms, trauma, neurodivergence in midlife, and the limitations of the DSM and medicalized language. Dr. Emma Offord shares how safety, environment, nervous system regulation, identity, and lived experience can shape how neurodivergent traits appear and why many people feel they do not fully belong within one category.
If you have ever questioned whether you are “autistic enough,” “ADHD enough,” too emotional to be autistic, or too complicated for a single diagnosis, this conversation may help you feel seen in a completely different way.
What Is Neurohybridity?
Dr. Emma Offord describes neurohybridity as an invitation to move beyond rigid diagnostic boxes and recognize the dynamic nature of neurodivergent experience. Rather than viewing people through fixed categories, neurohybridity acknowledges that many individuals identify with multiple neurotypes, sensory experiences, cognitive styles, and ways of moving through the world.
Marianne and Emma discuss how neurodivergent traits can shift depending on context, stress, environment, nervous system safety, masking, trauma, and support systems. They also explore how someone can feel sensory-seeking in one moment and sensory-avoidant in another, emotionally expressive yet highly masked, or deeply connected to multiple neurodivergent identities at once.
The conversation also examines how many people become trapped between diagnostic categories and how current systems often fail individuals whose experiences do not fit neatly into one lane.
Late-Diagnosed Autism, ADHD, & Misdiagnosis
Many neurodivergent adults grow up feeling different without having language for their experiences. Dr. Emma Offord shares how traveling extensively as a child, experiencing grief and loss, and later discovering neurodivergence shaped her understanding of identity and belonging.
Marianne and Emma discuss how outdated autism and ADHD stereotypes continue to affect diagnosis, especially for women, emotionally expressive people, and those who have spent years masking. They also explore how traditional diagnostic models can overlook the complexity of lived experience, particularly for people who move between different neurodivergent presentations over time.
This episode speaks directly to people who have felt misdiagnosed, unseen, invalidated, or confused by rigid definitions of neurodivergence.
The Limits of the Medical Model
Marianne and Emma also explore the emotional and systemic consequences of reducing people to diagnostic checklists and symptom categories. They discuss how diagnosis can simultaneously provide access to protection, accommodations, and community while also limiting how people understand themselves.
The conversation touches on medical trauma, medically unexplained symptoms, intersectionality, research bias, and the ways historically marginalized groups are often excluded from dominant mental health narratives. Together, they explore the need for more collaborative, flexible, neurodivergent-affirming systems of care that allow people to exist beyond narrow definitions.
About Dr. Emma Offord
Dr. Emma Offord is a neuro-affirming clinical psychologist, coach, speaker, and founder of Divergent Life. Her work focuses on neurodivergence, masking, trauma-informed care, relational safety, identity, and the lived experience of late-discovered neurodivergence.
Emma developed the concept of neurohybridity to describe the fluid, dynamic, and interconnected nature of neurodivergent identity. She is currently writing a book exploring these ideas and amplifying the voices of people who have felt unseen or misunderstood within traditional diagnostic systems.
Connect With Dr. Emma Offord
You can connect with Dr. Emma Offord on Instagram at @divergentlives, through the Divergent Life website, and through This Voice Is Mine: The Unquiet Podcast.
Related Episodes With Dr. Emma Offord and on Neurodivergent Needs and Experiences
Unmasking, Embodiment, & Trust: A Neurodivergent Approach to Eating Disorder Recovery With Dr. Emma Offord @divergentlives on Apple & Spotify.
Why Eating Still Breaks Down for Neurodivergent People With Long-Term Eating Disorders on Apple & Spotify.
Unmasking in Eating Disorder Recovery: What Neurodivergent People Need to Know About Safety & Healing via Apple & Spotify.
Autism & Anorexia: When Masking Looks Like Restriction, & Recovery Feels Unsafe via Apple & Spotify.
Recovering Again: Navigating Eating Disorders After a Late Neurodivergent Diagnosis (Part 1) With Stacie Fanelli, LCSW @edadhd_therapist via Apple & Spotify.
Work With Dr. Marianne
Dr. Marianne Miller is an eating disorder therapist and LMFT specializing in ARFID, binge eating disorder, autism, ADHD, neurodivergence, and eating disorder recovery. She offers therapy services for clients in California, Washington, D.C., and globally through coaching support.
For therapy, coaching, podcast episodes, courses, and other resources, visit Dr. Marianne’s website and follow along on Instagram @drmariannemiller.

When Safe Foods Stop Working: ARFID Plateaus, Burnout, & What Helps on Apple & Spotify.
ARFID Explained: What It Feels Like, Why It’s Misunderstood, & What Helps on Apple & Spotify.
Why Sensory-Attuned Care Matters More Than Exposure in ARFID Treatment on Apple & Spotify.
Complexities of Treating ARFID: How a Neurodivergent-Affirming, Sensory-Attuned Approach Works on Apple & Spotify.
Work With Dr. Marianne
Dr. Marianne Miller is a Licensed Marriage and Family Therapist specializing in ARFID, binge eating disorder, and neurodivergent-affirming eating disorder care. She offers therapy and coaching for clients in California, Washington, D.C., and globally.
Check out her website drmariannemiller.com. 
Follow her on Instagram @drmariannemiller.
Email her directly at hello@drmariannemiller.com.
Dr. Marianne also has an excellent virtual, self-paced ARFID and Selective Eating Course that's perfect for folks with ARFID who need more understanding and resources. It is neurodivergent-affirming, sensory-attuned, and trauma-informed.

If eating feels impossible, like your body shuts down, pushes back, or feels worse after you try, this episode explains why. For many autistic adults, eating challenges are shaped by POTS, nervous system differences, and misunderstood patterns that often get labeled as eating disorders. Here’s what’s actually happening and small steps that can help.
What POTS Is and Why It Changes Eating
POTS, or Postural Orthostatic Tachycardia Syndrome, affects how your body regulates heart rate, blood pressure, and circulation. When you move from lying down to sitting or standing, your body may struggle to move blood efficiently. This can lead to dizziness, fatigue, nausea, and a racing heart.
Eating adds another layer. Digestion requires blood flow and energy. After you eat, your body redirects resources to your digestive system. If your system is already working hard to manage circulation, this shift can increase symptoms. You might feel more dizzy, more fatigued, or more nauseous after meals. Over time, your body can start to associate eating with feeling worse, which makes it harder to initiate or sustain eating.
Autism, Interoception, and Why Hunger Cues Can Feel Unclear
Many autistic adults experience differences in interoception, or the ability to read internal body signals. Hunger, fullness, thirst, and early signs of nausea can feel inconsistent, delayed, muted, or overwhelming.
When interoception is already variable and you add POTS, where internal signals can shift quickly and intensely, it becomes harder to know when to eat, how much to eat, or what your body needs. You might not feel hunger until you are already depleted, or you might feel a mix of signals that are difficult to interpret.
Sensory Overload and Why Food Can Feel Like Too Much
Eating is a sensory experience. Texture, temperature, smell, taste, and the physical act of chewing and swallowing all require processing. If your nervous system is already managing dizziness, nausea, or a racing heart, sensory input can quickly become overwhelming.
Foods that once felt manageable can start to feel like too much. Eating can shift from neutral to overstimulating or even unsafe. This is a nervous system response, not a character trait.
Fatigue, Energy Limits, and Why Meals Get Skipped
POTS fatigue can feel like your body loses access to energy, especially when upright. Many autistic adults already navigate energy limits across the day. When eating requires planning, preparing food, sitting upright, tolerating sensory input, and managing symptoms afterward, it can exceed what your body has available.
So meals get delayed, minimized, or skipped. Not because you do not care, but because the cost is too high in that moment.
When This Gets Misread as an Eating Disorder
Low appetite, early fullness, avoiding food because it makes you feel worse, or going long stretches without eating can look like restriction from the outside. Sometimes these patterns are diagnosed as anorexia or another restrictive eating disorder without fully understanding the physiological and neurological context.
At the same time, someone can experience both. You can be autistic, have POTS, and have an eating disorder. These experiences can overlap and reinforce each other, which means support needs to reflect the full picture.
Why Eating Can Feel Worse Before It Feels Better
After eating, blood shifts toward digestion. For someone with POTS, this can increase dizziness, fatigue, and nausea in the short term. Your body learns quickly that eating leads to discomfort.
At the same time, not eating can worsen symptoms over time by affecting blood volume and blood sugar stability. This creates a loop where both options feel hard.
Small Steps That Can Make Eating More Accessible
Instead of raising expectations, this is about lowering the barrier to entry.
Start with smaller, more frequent eating opportunities. Even a few bites, a snack, or a drink with calories can be a meaningful step when full meals feel like too much.
Experiment with position. If sitting upright increases symptoms, try eating in a more supported or slightly reclined position, or resting before and after eating.
Simplify food choices. Repeating foods that feel predictable and manageable can reduce decision-making and sensory load. Convenience foods are valid.
Use gentle external cues if hunger signals are unclear. Timers, visual reminders, or pairing eating with another activity can help create structure without pressure.
Notice timing. Are there moments in the day when your symptoms feel slightly more manageable? Those windows can support eating.
Hydration and electrolytes, if part of your care plan, can support your body’s ability to tolerate both standing and eating.
Shifting the Question
If eating feels impossible, the question is not “What is wrong with me?” It becomes “What is my body responding to, and what would make this easier?”
This shift opens the door to more flexible, compassionate approaches that work with your nervous system instead of against it.
The Bigger Picture: Being Seen in the Complexity
Autistic adults are often misunderstood in healthcare settings. POTS can be underdiagnosed or dismissed. Eating disorders are frequently overlooked in people who do not fit expected presentations. When these experiences overlap, needs are often minimized or misinterpreted.
Your lived experience matters. Your body is communicating something real.
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Work With Dr. Marianne
If you are struggling to eat and it feels more complex than what typical advice addresses, you are not alone. I work with many people navigating eating challenges alongside neurodivergence and chronic conditions. Together, we build approaches that fit your nervous system, your energy, and your lived reality.
You can learn more about working with me through therapy or coaching on my website drmariannemiller.com.
You can also follow me on Instagram @drmariannemiller or email me directly at hello@drmariannemiller.com.
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It feels like everyone around you is getting smaller. This conversation will change how you understand why.
In this episode of the podcast, Dr. Marianne Miller sits down with eating disorder nutritionist Anne Richardson @theeatingdisordernutritionist to unpack what’s really driving the current push toward thinness. From GLP-1 medications like Ozempic to the rise of tradwife content to the constant noise around food and bodies, this episode goes beyond surface-level trends and into the deeper cultural, political, and psychological forces shaping how we relate to eating, weight, and worth. If your relationship with food or your body has felt more intense, more pressured, or more confusing lately, this conversation will help you make sense of it.
GLP-1s, Ozempic, and the New Era of Diet Culture
GLP-1 medications have rapidly shifted the landscape of weight loss, but this conversation asks a deeper question: are these medications simply tools, or are they reinforcing a much larger cultural push toward shrinking bodies? Anne and Dr. Marianne explore how conversations about Ozempic and similar drugs have taken over social media and everyday life, creating an environment where body size is once again under constant scrutiny. What might look like a health trend on the surface can quietly intensify eating disorder risk, comparison, and pressure to conform.
The “Everyone Is Getting Smaller” Effect
When more people begin to lose weight at the same time, it shifts the baseline of what feels “normal.” This episode breaks down the snowball effect that happens when shrinking bodies become more visible, leading others to feel like they need to follow suit—even if they were previously comfortable in their bodies. This dynamic can increase body dissatisfaction across all body sizes and contribute to disordered eating patterns, especially in environments where GLP-1 use becomes normalized or expected.
Tradwives, Thinness, and the Return of Restrictive Ideals
The rise of tradwife content on platforms like TikTok is not just about lifestyle aesthetics—it often carries messages about femininity, body size, and power. In this conversation, Anne and Dr. Marianne examine how hyper-femininity, thinness, and “being small” are being rebranded as desirable and even virtuous. They explore how these narratives can limit autonomy, reinforce gender roles, and create subtle but powerful pressure to look and behave in specific ways.
Is Diet Culture a Distraction?
One of the most compelling themes in this episode is the idea that the intense focus on bodies may function as a distraction from larger systemic issues. When attention is constantly redirected toward appearance, food, and weight, it can pull focus away from conversations about power, inequality, and social change. This lens invites a broader understanding of eating disorders—not just as individual struggles, but as experiences shaped by cultural and political forces.
Eating Disorders, Power, and Vulnerability
Anne shares personal reflections on her experience with anorexia and how disconnection from self can increase vulnerability to external pressures and ideologies. Together, she and Dr. Marianne explore how being undernourished, both physically and emotionally, can make it harder to access agency, voice, and resistance. This conversation reframes recovery as not just about food, but about reclaiming identity, autonomy, and the ability to take up space in the world.
The Intersection of Class, Access, and Body Size
This episode also highlights how access to GLP-1 medications is shaped by socioeconomic status, creating new layers of inequality. As some people gain access to weight-loss medications and others do not, body size can become further tied to wealth and privilege. At the same time, limited access to food, healthcare, and resources continues to shape eating behaviors and health outcomes, complicating the narrative around choice and control.
Why This Matters for Eating Disorder Recovery
If you are in eating disorder recovery, or questioning your relationship with food, this cultural moment can feel especially intense. The pressure to shrink, the constant body talk, and the normalization of restrictive behaviors can all make recovery more complex. This episode offers validation for how hard this moment can feel and invites a more compassionate, contextual understanding of your experience.
Connect With Anne Richardson
Anne Richardson is an eating disorder nutritionist based in the UK, working with clients across the UK and Europe. She shares nuanced, thought-provoking content on Instagram @theeatingdisordernutritionist about eating disorders, recovery, and diet culture.
Email: anne@theeatingdisordernutritionist.co.uk
Website: https://www.theeatingdisordernutritionist.co.uk/
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Work With Dr. Marianne
Dr. Marianne Miller is a licensed therapist specializing in eating disorder recovery, including ARFID, binge eating disorder, anorexia, and bulimia. She offers therapy and coaching for clients in California, Washington, D.C., and globally. Check out her website at drmariannemiller.com. You can follow her on Instagram @drmariannemiller.